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Chapter Three

“The Bride is Un-offended”

“I have told you all these things, so that you should not be offended…” Jn 16:1

A Great Challenge

One of the greatest challenges facing the Body of Christ today is being dead to offense from others – within the Body as well as within the world.  In fact, John Chapter 15 reads as a litany of the Lord’s cautions about not taking offense.  He explains that the Body will experience difficulties (hatred, persecution, suffering) because of Him, and because we bear His name.  He reminds us once again, that the servant is not greater than his Master.  As the world treated Him this way, so it will also treat His Body.

Why should we care about offenses or our reaction to them?  For one thing, they are a way the enemy tries to derail our focus and get us on a detour from our assigned purpose.  Look at Mt 24:12 as it provides an ominous view of the end-times Body and the state it has deteriorated to.  It says that the love of the great body of people will grow cold because of multiplied lawlessness and iniquity.  Jesus warns His disciples about deception and error, and about coming attacks.  He further warns that many will be offended and repelled and will begin to distrust and desert Him whom they ought to trust and obey.  They will stumble, He says, and fall away and betray one another with hatred.  These are all escalations of a decline that starts with – taking offense.

The Issue of Offense

Let’s look at the issue of offense to get a better picture of what is taking place. Just prior to His warning against being offended in John 16:1, Jesus has been talking to them about love.  He tells them what it means to dwell or abide in Him, and to have His words abiding in them.  He also defines what it means to love Him.  He says that keeping His commandments will ensure that we abide in His love and live on in it.  Then He gives them the commandment to love one another.  Remember the lyrics of that old  song, “they will know we are Christians by our love”?  If we can presume love is the hallmark of being a Christian — it would appear, then, taking offense is the enemy’s primary strategy to try and preclude that love.

Return for a moment to the warning in Mt 24:10-12.  It warns of how the love of the great body grows cold because of lawlessness and iniquity.  The greatest danger we currently and daily face – is letting our love grow cold.  How does cold love react against offense?  It picks it up!  The word “offended” in John 16 is from Strongs: #4624.  It is:  skandelize/skandelizo – to entrap from #4625, to trip up (fig. stumble) or entice to sin.  Strongs #4625 skandolar: is a trap stick (bent sapling, i.e. snare (fig. cause of displeasure or sin); occasion to fall (of stumbling) the thing that offends.

There is a trap, a snare, — actually bait that the enemy places in our path which we pick up. We pick up the offense.  The result is – the love for the brethren, and even God, begins to grow cold.  Remember the candle example with the wax?  Offense is a hard wax accelerator. Picking up an offense is a sure way to multiply your coldness towards the Body and God, and make way for lawlessness and iniquity to increase.

First Use of “Offended”

One of the first uses of the word “offended” is found in Genesis 20:9 and involves Abraham and King Abimelech.  In this situation, Abraham lies about Sarah being his wife – and calls her his sister.  They have gone to Gerar after the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah.  King Abimelech acquires Sarah as part of his harem.  God Himself warns Abimelech in a dream that He is a dead man because he has taken another man’s wife as his own. As Abimelech confronts Abraham about this, their discussion gives great insight into what generates offense.

Abimelech asks Abraham, “…And how have I offended you that you have brought on me and my kingdom a great sin?” Gen 20:9.  Additionally, he asks, “What did you see in us that justified you in doing such a thing as this? (Vs 10)  Abraham reveals his own heart in verse 11.  He confesses, “Because I thought, surely there is no reverence or fear of God at all in this place, and they will slay me because of my wife.”

Two things were operating here.  Abraham was acting out of self-preservation and fear, and also out of disdain for Abimelech and the people of Gerar.  Both of these emotions result when you think too highly of yourself, and do not value others.  In a way, Abraham loved himself too much (which caused fear), and did not love Abimelech (which caused him to disdain or devalue Abimelech).  Ironically, Abimelech is very gracious to Abraham and Sarah, even after this incident.  But then Abraham is able to pray for Abimelech and his people, to deliver them from the barrenness that God visited upon them as His judgement.  It ends well – people are healed and God is exalted.  But the underlying heart of offense is revealed.  It is a heart that regards itself more highly than it should.

Philippians 2:3 instructs us to: “Do nothing from factional motives [through contentiousness, strife, selfishness, or for unworthy ends] or prompted by conceit and empty arrogance.  Instead, in the true spirit of humility (lowliness of mind) let each regard the others as better than and superior to himself [thinking more highly of one another than you do yourselves].”

Times of Offense

We don’t have to think overly hard to recall times when we have ourselves been offended – or at least been tempted to begin the process.  Generally, we have been treated in someway that is displeasing to us, or demonstrates what we interpret as disregard or lack of courtesy.  It can be a very small and insignificant thing, maybe that we are mistaken about.  It can be a very large and deliberate thing, of which there is no mistaking the intent to offend.  In both cases, you and I have a choice to make, but our choice should be made way in advance of either of these events.  That is what we hope to accomplish here – advanced planning.  I’m talking about the cross.

Matthew 10:38-39 reads: “And he who does not take up his cross and follow me [cleave steadfastly to Me, conforming wholly to My example in living and, if need be in dying also] is not worthy of Me.  Whoever finds his [lower] life will lose it [the higher life], and whoever loses his life on My account will find it [the higher life].”

When we “die to ourselves” and our rights, we are losing the lower life – and we are taking up our cross and following Christ.  The Apostle Paul makes these intentions even clearer in Acts 20:24.  When speaking about the fact that he is going to Jerusalem and knows that only suffering and imprisonment await him there – he states very directly: “But none of these things move me; neither do I esteem my life dear to myself, if only I may finish my course with joy… and faithfully attest to the good news…”.

We begin to see that our best offense (so to speak) against being offended – and eventually becoming cold in our love – is to have Christ’s love in us and follow His example.  Remember how Jesus was speaking of his command to love one another just prior to speaking about offense in John 16?  Self-love and self-regard will make you easily offend-able, but Christ’s nature and intentions given to us through the cross, and a spirit of humility will keep you “dead and unmoved” by offenses. Offenses after all only act as a distraction and detour from the thing or course God wants you to take.  The danger is however, the more you have surrendered to offense the stronger the hold this lower nature has in you, and the harder you will now have to resist and turn away from it towards Jesus in repentance to regain lost ground.  You can’t fight it – that only makes it stronger.  You must drop it in the dust of death and turn away from it.  You must also ask forgiveness and cleaning from the Lord, not just for the wrong choices, but for the very nature that must be put to death in you that has precipitated these choices.

Mortification

There are two places in Scripture where we get our guidance for dying to self – or mortification.  The first is Romans 8:13.  The second is Colossians 3:5.  They are different words in the Greek, but they both get translated as mortify, kill, deaden, put to death, etc.  In the Romans verse, it is the Holy Spirit putting to death.  In Colossians, it is us being active in depriving of power the evil desires in our members.  Both of these Scriptures are strong imperatives for us to commit to memory and walk out.  They are vital for our growth and maturity in Christ!  The more we die to ourselves, the less we are apt to be spun about by the enemy and tripped up by his bait.

Un-offend-able

Now being un-offend-able to the world and other believers is one thing.  But paramount, and of even greater import is to become un-offend-able towards the Lord. Why you might ask?  Ultimately it is because even if offense comes from other people – it has been allowed by the Lord for His reasons.  Proverbs 16:33 is so clear on this:  “The lot is cast into the lap, but the decision is wholly of the Lord [even the events that seem accidental are really ordered by Him].”  An offense may come because we need to see the initial response of our own heart towards it –that we would be moved to repentance.  Realize repentance is not a one time thing for believers.  It should happen often – especially as the Lord is stirring us to grow in Christ-likeness.

We are a people that constantly must stay on guard against the flesh to be a force to sway us.  We need to be able to see the truth about ourselves and our motives, to stay in that place of lowliness and humility.  The Lord Himself is humble and lowly.  How much more so should we be — to remain in close unity with Him? He addresses this need in Matthew 11:6.  “And blessed is he who takes no offense at Me and finds no cause for stumbling in or through Me and is not hindered from seeing the Truth.”

Think back to the nation of Israel and the Pharisees.  As Jesus reflected truth to them – often an undesirable truth about themselves, they would rail at Him and desire to kill Him.  Depending on the state of their heart at that moment, they are moved either to kill Him, or to kill themselves (figuratively).  This is our litmus test for the character of Christ operating in us.  The more you are “like” Him, the more likely you are to embrace the working of the Cross in you. Not from some masochistic mind-set, but because it is needed. We are not much different, unfortunately, from the Pharisees, although we might generally reject that notion outright.  We must resist becoming a lover of our own press.  We may want to believe the best – but just like Abraham we need to be careful – it is easier to think of ourselves more highly than we should.

What About the Bride

Connecting this back to the Bride then, what does the she say about offense?  What is her posture towards it?  From Song of Solomon 1:4 we see her comment to the Beloved: “The upright [are not offended at your choice, but sincerely] love you.”  Once again – there is that juxtaposition of “offended” and “love”.  This is not accidental.  The righteous are not offended at Jesus, because they truly love Him!

The enemy’s greatest strategy is to try and move the saints to some adversarial position or questioning and unbelief in our position towards God.  Satan would have us believe God would withhold His best for us (like in the Garden).  He would have us believe that God would take us out of Egypt to just let us die in the wilderness (like the Israelites coming out of captivity from Egypt).  He would have us somehow believe that God is uninvolved or distracted from our problems, or doesn’t care enough to be concerned with the little things (but Job dispels this – Job 36:5).

The true challenge before the Bride is to not just to love God and believe He is good, but to believe it in the face of seemingly contradicting evidence.  To stand in faith against whatever the Lord allows in our life – this is what we are called to.  The Bride is called to walk by faith, not by sight.  She is called to be led by the Spirit of God.  This means being in a state that we can be led, because we are like Christ.  What did Job call out:  Though you slay me, yet will I trust you.  What did Joseph find – it was God all along who took Him to Egypt.  What his brothers meant for evil God meant for good – that many would be saved.  What did Jesus experience? Didn’t He say: Father why have you forsaken Me?  Didn’t He experience the most grueling death on the Cross and the separation from the Father even while the Father’s judgement and wrath was poured out on Him?  It is not our plight to carry our own sin —because He did.  But Jesus, who is perfect, trusted the Father perfectly.  You and I, who are not perfect, can in Christ trust the Father the same way.

Ultimately, this is what it is all about.  Who are we going to believe – who will we trust?  Will we trust our own fallen perception, or our own fleshly nature to decide issues of offense for us?  Or will we allow that lower nature to be put to death, deprived of power – and instead walk out as an instrument of righteousness fulfilling the Spirit of Life in Christ? This is the ultimate of what the Bride is called to do, in the power of the Spirit working in us, for the glory of God.

Chapter Two

The Bride Falls…and is Broken

“And whoever falls on this stone will be broken; but on whomever it falls, it will grind him to powder.”

Mt 21:44

There is a passage from the unpublished manuscript Sifting Oklahoma that relates an incident between two of the characters, Michael Goodman and Archer Reed.  They are preparing to perform a laboratory experiment when the glass bell jar Michael is holding falls to the floor and smashes.

“His lab-partner, Archer, bent down to help him retrieve the broken pieces.  As he worked, he paused momentarily to look with kindness into Michael’s troubled eyes.  He spoke softly, ‘You know, in the world’s natural order, things are useless when they are broken.  But in God’s supernatural order, things are useless until they are broken…’” (p.28)

Someone gets saved and suddenly they are suffering loss, or illness, or some sort of attack.  Later in their walk – devastation again occurs and it shakes their world to the core.  Depending on where they are in their relationship with Christ and their maturity, the event can leave them shipwrecked in their faith, or stronger than before, or absolutely becalmed and unable to move forward for lack of understanding (why this happened).

I want to step back for a second and refer to the Scripture at the title of this chapter, Mt 21:44.  Jesus has just related to the chief priests and elders of the temple the story of the wicked vinedressers.  He explains how the landowner decides to send his son after previous servants have been killed by the vinedressers.  The landowner’s thinking is: they will respect my son. But the vinedressers see the son and say, “This is the heir. Come let us kill him and seize his inheritance.”  So they take him and kill him.

Jesus quotes to the chief priests:  “The stone which the builders rejected has become the chief cornerstone.  This was the Lord’s doing and it is marvelous in our eyes.”  He continues by telling them the kingdom of God will be taken from them and given to a nation bearing the fruits of it, and then He quotes Mt21:44.

A Perfect Patch

Our Lord Jesus came to the world as the Word of God, in the flesh.  He came to free us from our sin nature, to cleanse and deliver us from all unrighteousness, and to give us His new redemptive nature.  Think of the world at that time as one single garment – a piece of cloth, terribly marred and rent by an imperfect fabric content that could not stand up to the pressures against it.  Jesus comes as the perfect patch, to permanently cover that rent for all time so that the garment will be of use and service as it was designed.  But the Scripture in Mark 2:21 is revealing – it says:  “No one sews a piece of un-shrunk cloth on an old garment; or else the new piece pulls away from the old, and the tear is made worse.”

The world (mankind) is the old garment needing repairs.  Jesus is the piece of cloth that repairs us – but here we are shown an important thing.  The patch for the garment must be shrunk, or conditioned, to be in a similar state to the old garment – otherwise it won’t adhere.  Jesus had to come in the same form as the garment.  He had to come to the world in the form of flesh – however He was free from sin!  He is the Son of Man for that reason.  But also, He had to suffer, and be crucified – literally shrunk, divested of all fluids, and to be conditioned for His role as the eternal patch and restorer of mankind.  Therefore, His work is forever.  He will never be pulled away from His service as The Perfect Patch.  There is perfect adhesion because of His coming as He did, and His willingly submitting to being shrunk by the Cross.

Like Him in Brokenness

Now as disciples of His, we are told in Luke 6:40 that we are not above our teacher, but when we are perfectly trained we will be like Him.  Interestingly enough, when we look at the patch verse in Mark 2, verse 20 talks about days to come when the friends of the bridegroom will fast because he has been taken away from them.  Fasting is an activity that brings us into a place of greater obedience in our flesh, and allows the spirit man to rule in us.  It too is a form of conditioning – just one such practice of discipline that helps us to become more perfectly trained.  Brokenness is also such a training that allows us to become like our teacher.  But it is not something we can schedule ourselves – we can only hold on tight and allow the work to be accomplished.

We are going to look at some of the instances of brokenness that have occurred for the Lord’s servants in the Bible.  But first let’s layout some introductory perspectives, to get things lined up.  Back for a moment to the Matthew 21:44 verse, it uncovers some important information about people.  In fact, you could almost make the statement – there are really two categories of people in the world (as seen from the Matthew verse).  There is one who falls on the stone and is broken, and there is one upon whom the stone falls, and they are crushed and winnowed like dust.  This is all from their experience with the same singular source – the Stone or the Chief Cornerstone – Jesus Christ.

When we come to Christ as a new believer we indeed do “fall” upon Him.   We put our trust in Him — we rely and lean on Him.  Strong’s concordance renders the word “fall” from #4098 in the Greek, pipto.  It says that it is probably akin to #4072 through the idea of alighting; to fall (lit or fig): — fail, fall (down), light on.

That’s all good and understandable.  The Lord is like the mother ship, and we are little tiny drone ships coming to land on Him.  He is home, like an aircraft carrier perhaps (forgive what seems irreverent here) and we are always aware of our distance in flight from Him.  He is our constant reference point, our source, and provider.

That’s all well and good for later flight operations and landings.  But when we first come to Jesus, depending on many factors, we may not be very much “like Him” or compatible at that time.  We may not sync-up very well! Our systems may not even be able to receive well or communicate accurately with Him. That’s where remembering the previous patch discussion becomes important.  Thank God – He knows how to triage quickly.  He knows what immediately needs to be redeemed in us to have a common ground.  It seems different for everyone.  One drug addict can come to the Lord and be fully delivered from that habit, while others will struggle and have to die to that hold in their life.  The point is the Lord knows what He wants to do, and what will anchor our life to His.  He also knows exactly our substance, and what will agree with and what will resist His life.  So what connects in our life to His life has to be approvable to Him.  It has to be, in-fact, holy like Him.  His ultimate goal is to have all of us able to dwell within Him – and to have union in Him.  That is a work of sanctification and consecration.  We agree with His ownership and submit, and He sets us apart and makes us holy.  Consecration is my active cooperation and choice in being His and becoming like Him.  For good or bad — we can all choose the level of His Lordship in our life.

Now imagine where the world has had a great hold on someone, or where for whatever reason, their ideas and belief systems are at complete odds with the Lord.  To redeem that area, a breaking sometimes has to take place to change the construction and constitution of that area and bring it into alignment with God and His word.   Ultimately, like the earlier story shared, what is useful in the Lord’s kingdom – has been broken, sometimes often, sometimes deeply.  But it is a distinctive of the child that the Lord is using and will use greatly – they will be broken.  How much more, will He also allow His promised Bride to experience brokenness — who is destined for singularity in union with Him, and is on this earth to carry His glory that the world will know He is the Son, and the Father sent Him?

A breaking is none other than a collision of sorts of ourselves with God, which brings about change in us.  It can be a breaking of pride, or self-sufficiency, or error, or sin and its hold on us.  Sometimes even with time following Christ as Lord, you and I hold onto things that are very detrimental to the His life in us or even our own health.  Holding anger, bitterness, unforgiveness, — these put us at odds with the Lord and even bring us under His judgement if we continue to resist His conviction and are not bringing  ourselves captive to the obedience of Christ Jesus.

Think of a candle burning.  The wax closest to the heat is fully liquid.  But as it moves further from the flame it cools and hardens.  The working of the Lord in our life sometimes requires a breaking up of these cooled and hardened areas – to allow His Spirit to flow more freely within us, and to have a larger base of holiness in us from which to operate.

“Whoever falls on this Stone will be broken”, the word here is sunthlao: to crush, to dash together, i.e. shatter: — break.  Where you and I need more in common with Christ, or as He seeks to increase His life in us for greater use, there has to come a breaking, a shattering, that He can reassemble and make like Himself.  Like a bone that has grown wrong, crooked and bent with sin, He allows it to be broken for greater strength, health, and likeness to and a future with Him.

We must realize though, as the sovereign Lord – He knows exactly the level and kind of breaking that will effect the change He desires.  Sometimes it can simply be accomplished by an understanding of His Word that causes us to see ourselves as we are.  Then, our perfect illusion of ourselves is shattered.  Other-times it may require significant loss or change to bring us to that place of repentance.  But the Lord always knows exactly the level of force to effect change.  He doesn’t apply more than is needed – although we may want to debate that.  He is a God of exactness and goodness!

There is a very different future ahead however, for whom the Stone falls upon.  When the Stone falls upon you, it is terminal in the direst sense.  It is a crushing blow, followed by being winnowed like dust.  It is complete destruction — but is reserved for only those who permanently refuse and resist the Lord on every turn.  He gives them the right to choose, but to choose willfully and adversarially against Him ushers in death.  In refusing Him – they also refuse the very life which He brings, thus they reap death.  People may balk at this exercise of the Lord’s sovereignty.  Sometimes from our natural perspective it can seem overly harsh perhaps, at the very least unfair.  So we must see from another perspective.  To understand in any fullness we must see it from God’s perspective and with trust in His character. (I refer you to Romans 9 — and we move on.)

Now let us finally examine a variety of instances in the Bible where breaking has occurred.  We do this in an effort to trust more fully that the Lord knows what He is doing.  In this there is much profit!

Broken Job

We first look at the life of Job.  We see in the first verses of the Book that Job is blameless and upright in the eyes of God, and feared God and shunned evil.  He was the greatest of all men in the East.  So his life was very likely to be noticed by many people (point of importance.)  For the sake of brevity, and to actually get to the point I want to make, Job gets selected for a trial to demonstrate that those who love God do so not as robots, mindlessly, or because of His protection, but because we believe in Him – that He is good.  In a day, Job loses everything, and yet still gives thanks to God, for giving and even for taking away.

Then Job goes through another set of trials only to lose his health, his friends, his stature in society, and then be chastised as a closet sinner by those he counted as friends.  Finally, after much obfuscation, a messenger is sent to speak to Job.  As I see it, Job’s spiritual panties had gotten into such a twist he didn’t know which end was up (no disrespect intended).  As the Lord plans to speak to Job, He first allows Elihu to bring him into a better focus, where he can actually receive what God is about to tell him.  Elihu brings clarity and untangles some of Job’s confusion, and even cautions Job against seeing himself as more righteous than God.  After the Lord’s words to Job, he makes some profound observations and admissions.  These are what I want to focus on, for they are the heart of the issue.

Job begins with an acknowledgement. He knows the Lord can do all things and that no thought or purpose of His can be thwarted.  This is amazing and poignant!  You see we now have the Lord’s thoughts, purposes, His very character as “the Word of God” — in writing.  We can know more fully His nature because of His Word.  In fact, the Lord has elevated His Word (in honor) over His very name.  Hence, what is in His Word, you and I can trust and rely upon because He is protecting its truth.  He is ensuring that it comes to pass. Scripture says the Lord watches over His word to perform it.  He makes sure events happen as He desires.  Psalm 119:89 says that the Lord’s Word is settled in heaven – a place where there is no corruption, all things are perfect and good – and that’s where His Word is settled ( there’s no debate on it there).

Also, Job makes an observation.  He says to God that before (previous to the trial) he had heard of God with the hearing of the ear, but that now his eye sees Him.  This is the heart of profit in the trial.  It was not capricious on God’s part to allow this situation.  It stands as a testament for God’s power for all time.  He shows for Job and us that He is bigger than any trial or issue that can come against us.  His goal was to increase in relationship in Job’s life, and that in fact happened.  Additionally, Job lived in fear of bad things happening to his loved ones.  He even confessed, “what I feared has come upon me.”  The Lord wanted Job to know Him more fully, and to be delivered from the captivity of his fear to threats of loss or harm.  It becomes a win-win situation where Job becomes acquainted with the Lord deeply, has all things restored to him, is no longer in bondage of any sort, and gets to pray for his three friends and their healing!  But the point is – there was a breaking for Job which resulted in good in the final outcome for all involved.  This was a breaking which the Lord allowed in his Job’s life, but it also becomes a testament for us all of the Lord’s nature.  This book of Job stands not as a warning of, “Oh watch out – here comes a breaking!”  Rather it says from the Lord, “Be confident in Me.  I am good, and My Works will be no less good than I am!”  This is a book that helps us trust the Lord fully, and correctly.  It expands our understanding of who He truly is, and that He cares for us!  Amazing!

Broken Joseph

The life of Joseph is another place we can look and find greatness and awe-inspiring service because of breaking in his life.  Joseph became a target for his brothers because of what began as parental favoritism.  Eventually, he was thrown down a well and left for dead, only for the plans to change and to be sold into slavery by traveling Egyptian traders.

The story-line worsens.  He gets purchased by a man named Potiphar who is powerful and works for the Pharaoh.  After serving his master faithfully, Potiphar’s wife decides to lustily pursue Joseph and he gets thrown into jail accused of rape.  It gets even worse from there.  What seems like a chance to be released backfires when the Chief Butler forgets to bring his name before the Pharaoh.  Meanwhile, Pharaoh has been plagued with nightmares and he asks for help to interpret them.  When his own team of magicians fails to come through – Joseph’s name is finally remembered and brought before Pharaoh by the Chief Butler.

At the point that Joseph is brought before Pharaoh, it has been years since his first being sold.  Throughout this time, even with discouragement upon discouragement, Joseph encourages himself in the Lord.  And the Lord does not forget Joseph, but He gives Him favor in every situation and prospers him.  But He has also worked carefully on Joseph during the abandonment, the selling into slavery, the false accusation, and the jail-time, to bring his heart to a state of grace and mercy concerning his brothers.

At the moment that Joseph is remembered and brought out of jail before Pharaoh, his life changes.  He is rewarded for correctly interpreting the dreams through the power of God.  He is also promoted to Pharaoh’s right hand man above everyone else, and is tapped to lead (on Pharaoh’s behalf) Egypt through the seven years of plenty and the seven years of famine.

Let’s take a moment to now look at Roman 5:1-4.  It makes a number of points that are apropos to the topic of brokenness.  One, it says now that we have been absolved and acquitted of guilt because of Jesus’ sacrifice, we can enjoy peace with God through Jesus Christ.  Two, through this same Jesus – we have access to a state of grace in which we firmly stand.  Three, we are called to be full of joy now!  In fact we are called to exalt and triumph in our troubles and rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that pressure and affliction and hardship produce patient and unswerving endurance.  Fourth, this endurance develops maturity of character, and this character produces a joyful and confident hope of eternal salvation.

Joseph was definitely a recipient of many sufferings, but they were rightly suffered and therefore produced patient and unswerving endurance.  How do we know this? He displayed the maturity of character to deal with his brothers in grace and forgiveness.  The truth of Joseph’s developing the character of Christ-likeness is seen as he treats his brothers not only without malice, but with kindness as they arrive in Egypt to purchase grain to take back home.  The Lord’s humbling of Joseph is clearly evident as he is able to forgive and reconcile with his brothers, even though he had the power to dispose of them quickly.  But the Lord’s intention was for Joseph to be more than just a forgiving brother!

Joseph not only stands as a prime example of this Romans 5 description, but he is given a new name to demonstrate God’s pleasure and validation of him – Zaphenath-paneah.  This means savior of the world, and stands as a foretaste of the Lord’s own coming to save us from eternal death.

The Link

Now, you may be uncertain of the link between such breakings, and the Promised Bride of Christ.  That explanation could it-self fill a book!  However, to make the connection clear and concise let us first go to Romans 8:29.  This verse constitutes the Lord’s promise and justification for all that He introduces and allows in our lives.

“For those whom He foreknew [of whom He was aware and loved beforehand], He also destined from the beginning [foreordaining them] to be molded into the image of His Son [and share inwardly His likeness], that He might become the firstborn among many brethren.” (Rom 8:29 Amp)

In this Scripture we first hear a harkening even back to Luke about a servant being trained like their master.  But additionally, the wording is even more specific.  If we are a disciple, a believer in Christ – we are being actively molded into the likeness of the Son.  Why?  We are His Body.  He purchased us with His blood, and Corinthians says your body is the very temple of the Holy Spirit Who lives within you?  You are not your own — you were bought with a price, and made His own!

Being “molded into His image,” and becoming the firstborn “among many brethren” – these both reveal the Lord’s purpose and justification.  The Body of Christ and the “many brethren’ referred to here, are the same thing.   The Body is also another name for the Promised Bride to come.  Hence, you can begin to see the tie in.  The Lord’s intention is that we (the Body of believers – His own Body) would become Christ-like – that is, share inwardly His likeness.  The more “like Christ” we are, the more we are able to have oneness and union with Him.  That union begins here on earth as the Body (The Promised Bride) gets further sanctified by the truth.  It is that sanctification which allows us or makes us safely able to carry His glory into the world.  But the process begins with being made Christ-like.  That is the promise and purpose for being broken.  He is the Lord God – “He changeth not”!  To be like Him – to be qualified to eventually carry His glory before the world – we must be changed!

Just like we fall or alight-upon Jesus when we are saved – He also alights upon us with His enduement of power.  This is what makes it possible for us to be His witnesses, and it is for this purpose that we are given power, efficiency, and might by the Holy Spirit.

One of the things that Watchman Nee says can delay our receipt of the Baptism of the Holy Spirit is not having a full work – or full enough working in us of the Cross.  This point requires a moment of our attention to round out our understanding.

We know that Christ suffered in the flesh for us.  We also know He is the Head of His Body.  Philippians 1:29 explains that just as we have been granted the privilege to believe in Christ, so we must also suffer in His behalf.  1Peter 2:21 reveals that as Christ suffered for us, He left us His personal example so that we should follow His example.  But why do we need to suffer? Let’s look at this briefly.

Christ suffered on the Cross for you and I and His work is finished!   However, what stands to be completed is the suffering of His body.  Remember we need to become “like” Him – compatible.  Remember the patch story.  Colossians 1:24 speaks to this:  Paul speaking here, “Even now I rejoice in the midst of my sufferings on your behalf.  And in my own person I am making up whatever is still lacking and remains to be completed on our part of Christ’s afflictions, for the sake of His body, which is the church.” There is nothing lacking for salvation – but there is a need for the Lord’s body to be conditioned (just as He was) to be like Him through its suffering.

Look also at Paul’s comments in 2Cor 12:9.  We all get caught up in Paul’s description of his thorn, but miss his later claim.  He says he will glory in his weakness that the strength and power of Christ may rest (pitch a tent over and dwell upon him)! Short of suffering and going through a work of the Cross and sanctification in the truth – there doesn’t seem to be a shortcut to this process.  To have Him in abundance “upon” our lives will require a falling, and a breaking – that the power of the Cross can possess and reign over our lives.

Lastly, the truth is nailed by Peter as he speaks directly to the Beloved – the body of Christ.  1Peter4:12-14:

“Beloved, do not be amazed and bewildered at the fiery ordeal which is taking place to test your quality as though something strange (unusual and alien to you and your position) were befalling you.  But insofar as you are sharing Christ’s sufferings, rejoice, so that when His glory [full of radiance and splendor] is revealed, you may also rejoice with triumph [exultantly].  If you are censured and suffer abuse [because you bear] the name of Christ, blessed [are you – happy, fortunate, to be envied, with life-joy, and satisfaction in God’s favor and salvation, regardless of your outward condition], because the Spirit of glory, the Spirit of God, is resting upon you…”

In Christ you and I as His Body have an amazing destiny – to be fashioned as His Bride.  But in the process – to be usable and of service in His Kingdom — we will fall and be broken.

Chapter One

A Right Focus

“Set your mind on things above, not on things on the earth.” Col 3:2

There is a need to actively, deliberately, change our mind-set from being the church (Christ’s body) to being the Bride of the Bridegroom.  We have long been focused on being the church, but in fact when we see the Lord and are presented to Him – it will be as the promised Bride, not as the church.  Paul alludes to this future meeting in 2Cor 11:2-3.  He says, “For I am jealous for you with godly jealousy.  For I have betrothed you to one husband, that I may present you as a chaste virgin to Christ.  But I fear, lest somehow, as the serpent deceived Eve by his craftiness, so your minds may be corrupted from the simplicity that is in Christ.”

The Chaste Virgin/One Body

As you see from this passage – our presentation to Christ will be as a chaste virgin to our Lord, not as a corporate entity, or in the form of a multi-faceted church.  Between now and our imminent future as the Bride, things must change.  More specifically, we the saints must change. Those areas of change are what we will explore here, beginning with our mind-set.

It is not possible for the enemy to steal the salvation which Jesus has already purchased as our Kinsman Redeemer for His Bride, but it is possible for the enemy to help us be corrupted and deceived in our thinking.  What am I trying to say, you may be asking?

Currently, all the believers on earth, and those saints already in heaven comprise the church.  Strong’s Concordance renders the word as ekklesia, from a compound of 1537 and a derivation of 2564; a calling out, a popular meeting especially a religious congregation (Jewish synagogue, or Christian community of members on earth or saints in heaven or both).

Positionally — in Christ, we already exist as one body, His body — the body of Christ — straddling heaven and earth, vivisected from full fellowship with each other, and from full fellowship from Jesus our Lord as well.  This has been a time of training for all parts of the body — a divine dress rehearsal in a sense for getting skilled and practiced in our roles, and transformed ourselves for making His impact on the world at large.  Indeed, the church is a training organization!  However, our goal here is not to perfect being the church – it is instead to perfect becoming the Bride.  One does not perfectly overlay the other.  They are different especially in their focus.

Two Illustrations

My best illustration of this different focus is when I was in training at Officer Training School (OTS) as an Officer Trainee (OT) for the United States Air Force – a “90 Day Wonder” as we often were called.  On the last day of training, just prior to being commissioned as a new 2^nd Lieutenant in the United States Air Force, it suddenly hit me.  I didn’t quite know how to behave.  I didn’t know what to do.  Up till then, all my training was as an OT.  In very little time I was going to become an officer – but I wasn’t sure of the transition.  Was I going to need to be different?

Thankfully, the training as an OT prepared and carried me over into the performance of a successfully functioning officer.  But the point to understand is that they were not exactly the same.  One prepared you to become the other.  But we were never meant to continue as OTs for the duration of our careers!  The training as an OT was required to walk as an officer.  The training was necessary to help me function in a similar but higher capacity.

Another illustration is seen through examining how the lock system of the Panama Canal works.  As a ship enters the lock system, it is raised to a new level by water being pumped into the lock that holds the ship.  When raised to the desired water level, the lock opens and the ship is now able to function at a different level of water and to enter the places at that new elevation.  We are ourselves being prepared to be raised by a great influx of the Lord’s presence.  We enter the process as the church, but we exit as the Promised Bride about to enter the marriage supper of the Lamb.

The Next Destiny

In the same way, we are the church for this time of training and preparation, but that is not the ultimate destiny.  Making ourselves ready or preparing ourselves to become the Bride is in fact the next target goal, as we see in Revelation 19:7-8: “…for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and His wife has made herself ready.  And to her it was granted to be arrayed in fine linen, clean and bright, for the fine linen is the righteous acts of the saints.”

These righteous acts are what we are led to accomplish on earth as the church, but in our focus – our mind-set – even now we are called to be heavenly minded.  In truth, we must see that there is a distinct difference between having the mind-set of the church, and having the mind-set of the Bride.  Let’s look at some examples the Lord provided to help distinguish between these two mind-sets.

Two Examples/Two Mind-Sets

When we have the mind-set of the church, we view evangelism in a process-oriented, particularly administrative way.  To be clear, I must describe this in the extreme state — although there are degrees and variations of this description that may apply.  I mean no offense to anyone who evangelizes.  It is necessary, however, to describe how the two mind-sets differ.  With the mind-set of the church, evangelism is predominantly a programmatic and planning function.  It is something to be managed.  Statistics, and strategizing – a focus on numbers served and numbers converted provides the impetus as we pursue the Great Commission.  There is a difference, as the church, in knowing we have achieved this goal with quantification being the ultimate measure of success.  We will know, for instance we have succeeded when “this many” people groups have heard the gospel message and responded with a commitment to Christ as Lord.  Its focus is less associated with the heart than with a plan.  In no way do I condemn these goals or methods of evangelism, for we are called to spread the gospel and make disciples.  But here – intent of the heart trumps method.  What is our heart focus as we evangelize is more important even than our focused goal.  Please stay with me as I clarify the mind set of the Bride.

To understand the mind-set of the Bride, we must look at the Scripture in Song of Solomon chapter five.  The Shulammite woman is describing how she has taken her rest after working in the vineyard all day.  The voice of her beloved comes to her as he knocks at her door.  As she deliberates about opening the door, since she has already retired for the night, the words of the beloved move her heart to arise.  She opens the door, but he has already departed.  She begins to search for him, and even enters the city where the watchmen strike her and take her veil and mantle.  She addresses the daughters of Jerusalem, and it is here that we apprehend the heart of the Bride for evangelism.  The Shulammite charges the daughters of Jerusalem to tell her Beloved (if they should see Him), that she is sick from love (the Amplified renders this “simply sick to be with him”).  They of course ask her a provocative leading question: “What is your beloved more than another beloved?”  In essence, they wonder what does he have that she is out here in the city seeking him, being struck and robbed?  What is he that prompts this search and makes it worth the cost?  This very question opens the door for the Shulammite to proclaim the nature and worth of her beloved  from her heart – which begins: “My beloved is fair and ruddy, the chief among ten thousand!”  She offers a soliloquy of such praise that it becomes a bookend of equal force to match her passion of pursuit.  There is a “marriage” (foretaste) here of believing and doing that are irresistible as a testimony to her beloved.  This is not a four-point conversion strategy, nor is this a promise to make your life’s journey more comfortable.  In fact this is not a strategy of any kind to elicit a commitment.  The goal is not to gain a response from the daughters – but to express a truth so formed in the heart of this Shulammite that she can do nothing but express it.  Her soul and her body cooperate to form the foil of expression for this deep love in her inner man. It is a picture of profound love and devotion.  It is the essence of the difference between the mind-set of the church and its academic preparation which tends to present academically. The Shulammite, however, is more like the picture of the Olive press, when indeed pressed – the olives give forth what is hidden within them.  What is hidden within the Shulammite that is expressed is something to be sought after — that experiential love and knowledge of Christ that has no counterfeit.

What do we seek?

Ultimately, another clarification in this mind-set might be stated, “what do we seek?”  If we seek to evangelize as the primary thing, it will fall short.  If we seek first the kingdom (and to first know Him above all else) then we will have sought the better portion like Mary did, and it will not be taken away from us.  Then when the opportunity arises to speak about him, it will be as easy as bragging on the beloved – and our actions will validate our passion and provide a testimony that rings of truth.  The point here is not that evangelism from the mind-set of the church is wrong in any manner or way. It is that evangelism from the mind-set of the bride is better!

Perhaps it is best understood by a comparison.  It would seem the early church set itself to walk out the believing life as the Spirit led.  Along the way, they evangelized wherever opportunity arose.  Today’s church seeks to evangelize all over, and along the way to find the leading of the Spirit.  So with the Bride, the mind-set’s first and foremost focus is relationship and devotion to Christ, secondarily it is to share that as a life testimony.  You must possess it first before you can give it out, or break is as bread to share.

This, then, is the danger alluded to much earlier, that 2Cor 11:3 speaks about.  It is simplicity to follow our heart’s devotion to a natural event of sharing that heart.  However, the more we focus or construct the event of sharing over simply focusing on the object of our affection, the more the event begins to take precedence and our witness can actually suffer loss and weaken.  In a sense, we are distracted from the greater portion just as Martha was wearied in a multiplicity of her ways.  She did not have the single, simple focus that Mary did – which would not be taken from her.  Also, our heart can become torn and entangled over the conditions people are experiencing, and we can be more caught up into their plight than in our first love when outcome-based results take precedence.  The enemy is very cunning, and when it comes to the sympathies of our heart, we are called to “guard our hearts above all that we guard, for out of it flow the issues of life.”  Nothing is to be of greater value than our devotion to our Lord, not even our witnessing about Him, or our ministry for others.

Why Imagine the Bride?

In the Book of Revelation, we hear a profession of amazing unity between the Spirit and the Bride who say, “Come.”  This is a call to those remaining on the earth to receive Christ as their Savior.  The Bride here has aligned herself with the call of the Spirit.  Through His power working in her, she will convict and convince the world and bring demonstration to it about sin and about righteousness.  This is not simply an academic teaching of who the Savior is.  This is a demonstration of His truth and power by the operation of the Holy Spirit.  The call is directed to those who are listening, those who are thirsty, and those who desire it.  This unity with the Spirit is what keeps the Bride safe from corruption and seduction away from Christ, and keeps her protected from any other devotion except that for Christ Jesus.  Like the Holy Spirit – all of our promotion will be for Jesus.

As the church adopts the mind-set of the Bride we will focus with one spectacular unifying vision of Christ before us.  This vision is the heart that is fully set on Him and trumps all other causes.  The believers will coalesce as one flow.  Unlike today where the church holds multiple visions which serve to dissipate and channel our force – there will be just one vision – the Beloved Jesus, soon coming King.  Things like evangelism, discipleship, doctrine, gifts, etc. all should hold a secondary place to the unifying vision of devotion to our Lord Jesus Christ. The Apostle Paul talked about knowing Christ (and Him) crucified as his preeminent focus.  As the church, we have become beset by cumbersome weights and causes that vie for supremacy with devotion to Jesus.  As the Bride, out perspective is simple: nothing is more important than loving and serving Him.  This then gives an important insight into the question: why have the mind-set of the Bride?  The answer: as the bride we become single focused with a unifying vision of Christ.  We become single-hearted as His love.

So, we first contrasted the way evangelism is perceived from the mind-set of the church, and then the mind-set of the bride.  Let us now look at another application of the two mind-sets.

Faith vs. Faithful

We turn now to contrasting the virtue of faith/faithfulness as would be perceived by the respective mind-sets of church and bride.  Luke 18:8 part b asks a provocative question: “When the Son of Man comes, will He find faith on the earth?”

Again, first looking from the church’s mind-set – this more often is focused on the qualities that we demonstrate to the world or even other believers.  Are we operating in faith?  Do we still believe as we should?  Is our salt still salty?  Can we still affect change in the world?  So it points as a warning against losing faith.  It emphasizes the need to keep the faith resident within us, but as a means of demonstration to the world, or to those in the church around us.  In the church mind-set we seem to look for validation to others and/or the world.

For the Bride, the rendering of this Scripture’s intent is profoundly personal, and much more directed towards the Bridegroom than anywhere else.  It is a caution against unfaithfulness in our relationship with Him.  It is the Bride remaining faithful to her vows of devotion and having nothing else before Him – like a newly engaged couple, or newly married pair – it is about remaining faithful and allowing no ground to an outside element to have a foothold or place that would erode the relationship.

Imagine you are a newly wed.  You are a professional in the work environment.  Think of how staunchly you have to guard against encroachments in your affections, your responsibilities, and your emotions with your new spouse.  You strive to give no reason for jealousy, no reason for doubt, no foothold of allegiance to any obligation over that of your new spouse.  If you let it, time spent at work can contest available time with each other.  The important question is always, who is serving whom?  Do I perceive my occupation as providing a base of service to support my marriage relationship?  Or do I see my marriage as a means to support my occupational goals and pursuits?  Precedence it everything: in this as well as in our relationship with the Lord.  So, concerning the Bride’s mind-set on faithfulness, it is all person-oriented: to the person of our Lord Jesus Christ.  The Bride desires to have or hold nothing before Him, and her faithfulness is all towards Him.  He is the object of all her allegiance.

It is this mind-set of the Bride which ultimately steers us toward Christ-likeness.  As we focus our thinking on higher things and not on earthly things (Col 3:2), we bring ourselves into the position of being renewed and remolded into fuller and more perfect knowledge after the likeness of Him Who created it (Col 3:10).  As our eyes behold Him our thinking is renewed, and we are transfigured from glory to glory, which is from the Lord (2Cor 3:18).

I raise a caution, here, to not discount the importance of pursuing the mind-set of the bride. To do so would be like disregarding a compass heading affected by magnetic north.  Initially, we would seem to be on the right path, but as time and distance wear on the error is both great and ruinous.

Our next chapters explore some of the nature and specifics of the Bride and these will form the remainder of the book.  May the Lord go before us even now for a witness to His truth, and for protection against the enemy’s deception.

©Sandra Gilloth 2010

Imagine…The Bride

Introduction

An Eternal Promise

From the very moment the Lord touched my understanding on the topic of the Bride, He used Genesis 11:6 as the basis and foundation for my investigation.  As a classic end-times prophecy movie aficionado, I am aware of the misuse of this Scripture by the New Age community and others for their own call to a bizarre mind-meld unity principle.  But this is not at all how the Lord presented this Scripture to me.  Let’s first review Genesis 11:6 as it is found in the Amplified Bible:

“And the Lord said, Behold, they are one people and they have all one language; and this is only the beginning of what they will do, and now nothing they have imagined they can do will be impossible for them.”

What was conveyed to me was this verse stands as an enormous eternal promise that God honors for all mankind.  For good or for evil, whatever we pursue with united effort we will have.  Even in God’s benevolence, He will not withhold a reaping of ill that will occur from this pursuit.  It is also the rationale and explanation for every breakthrough that we have experienced on earth from man’s direct effort and intervention.  Every medical  discovery, every breakthrough in science, every discovery in new technologies, every “find” in archeology and other disciplines can be attributed to God honoring this promise.  However, whether we put our collective minds to pursue nuclear annihilation, or strategies to benefit mankind — when we have gathered in one effort, it will not be withheld from us.

The negative side of this promise is dramatically seen in Romans 1:26, where it is describing the press of man to pursue sexual impurity and specifically detailed “vile affections and degrading passions.”  Ultimately it says that God gives them over to these — He doesn’t hold them back even for their own safety.  But He gives them over to their base and condemned mind to do things not proper or decent but loathsome.  This stands as a very grave warning for everyone, to beware what you pursue.

When the United States became interested in atomic energy for weapons development –they too became one people (identifiable by their focus and the efforts to pursue that focus).  They had in common, one language — the language of science (Chemistry/Physics etc.).  And as we can see, the results of that pursuit entered us nationally into the atomic age.  There we launched atomic weapons at Hiroshima and Nagasaki because we considered it more humane than continuing and escalating the scale of the war.  Debatable!  But my point here is, even concerning detriment and harm, what we imagine will not be withheld from us.

Now take that same promise and apply it to the Body of Christ.  As we have been redeemed and adopted into the Kingdom, we are all one people.  We are the people of God.  We also have one language — a holy language.  First, we have the Word of God, and as a companion to that we have the language of tongues as given by the Holy Spirit.  What makes the Body of believers different, however, from the world — is our anchor and plum-line in Christ Jesus.  So now what motivates us is not our fallen nature which (without Christ) could lead us to pursue the power of God (atomic/nuclear/etc.), without any accountability to God.  Nor do we seek to scientifically unseat God, and place man’s thinking on the altar of our worship as an idol.  Instead, we have within ourselves the life of Jesus through the Holy Spirit dwelling within us.  His Spirit moves us to pursue what pleases Him.

In a defining passage, 2Cor5:14 reveals that as believers we are of the opinion that as One (Christ) has died for all, thus all have died.  For that reason, now the love of Christ urges, controls, and impels us.  What defines us as a believer is that we believe Christ has died for our sins on the Cross, and we have received that sacrifice.  As we receive His death in our place, we are in fact baptized into His death — all have died.

So now as the Body of Christ, we have laid before us a very awesome promise.  Become the Promised Bride — for according to Gen11:6, what we imagine will not be withheld from us!

The Presentation

As I sat before the Lord for insight on how to present this topic, it became apparent that there are other parts to the overall process.  That is, before actually imagining the Bride one must first Behold, Believe, then Imagine, and finally Become the Bride.  It is, however, “imagining” the Bride that the Lord has called me to focus on.  That is why the other described parts are omitted.  For clarity though, I will touch on each briefly for a point of reference.

“To Behold” refers to actually seeing or recognizing the Scriptural call upon the Body to become the Bride.  In 2Cor3:18 we find as we behold in the Word of God the very truth of God, and we are actually changed from glory to glory into His image.  Hence, we become what we behold.  Likewise, in beholding Christ’s image through the word, we also move more and more into the image of the Bride — the very likeness of Christ formed in His Body.  The Chapter titled “Finding the Beloved” would actually fall under this area of “Beholding”, but has been included as an addendum.  The goal was to present a comprehensive work on “Imagining” without dissipation in any way.  While “Finding the Beloved” is an addendum, it must be seen that it is actually paramount and a precursor to the whole process.  You can only launch into “Beholding the Bride” if you have already said yes to the Bridegroom.  You will only say yes when your heart has found Him and you become cognizant that He is Lord, Savior, and soon coming King!

“To Believe” is appropriating the Word.  To use a boat analogy, if  beholding is to “see the boat”, then believing is to “trust the boat and climb into it.”  It is to cling with trust to the belief in Christ and His word and His promises.  It is to possess these things as your very treasure.

“To Imagine” the Bride (continuing with the boat analogy), is to fill the sails of the boat with the vision for the Bride.  It is to harness the power and momentum of that vision in preparation to the obedience of walking that vision out.

That is what “To Become” the Bride is — walking out the fullness of the vision in obedience.  So to “imagine” is to consolidate momentum and power for the culminating stage — to become the Bride or to walk out being the Bride.  Like the wind which fills the sail enables you to get underway (cast-off), this movement is the righteous deeds of the saints that establish the Bride’s right to wear the bridal attire found in the Book of Revelation.  It is the fluid, unified, powerful churning of well oxygenated living water that is a force to reckon with!

So you see that there is more than just to “Imagine…The Bride,” although that is our challenge here.  There is first: to behold, to believe, to imagine, then to become the Bride.  But our focus and target of this work deals with –imagining the Bride.

Let the imagining begin!  I pray that you are not only blessed by this effort, but that it ignites the Body of Christ to be filled to overflowing with God’s Word and His promises, to not only imagine the Bride, but to usher in the time when the whole earth will be filled with the knowledge of the glory of the Lord.  Blessings — Sandra

©Sandra Gilloth 2010.

The following is the full text of Sandra’s work-in-progress: Last Days Prophecy for the Church, Genesis 11:6, Imagine…The Bride.

Preface

The Vision

In 2002, when my family and I set off for a trip to Niagara Falls and to the Toronto Airport Christian Fellowship (TACF), God released a revelation within me.  I was the official trip navigator in the front passenger seat studying the Rand McNally map.  My husband was driving.  My two children, were tucked in the back seat.  My sister was also traveling with us, so we were all piled into the Chevrolet Caravan rental for the trip.

We were driving north, away from Pittsburgh, on the PA Interstate — first heading north toward Erie PA.  Then we picked up I-90 heading northeast towards Buffalo, NY.  From Buffalo, we picked up I-190 heading north to Niagara Falls.  As I changed maps from the New York State map to the Buffalo/Niagara map inset — the Lord spoke to my heart.  What He conveyed was this:

For the last two-thousand years you have been the church.  Now pursue being the Bride.  This is not a new course, or a new destination.  Just as you have navigated from general maps to their insets — now is the time to focus on the inset: the final and greater detail.  Just as you used one map to get near your location, but used the inset to navigate in closer, you are now closer to the destination than you previously were.  It is time for the church to have more specific instruction to reach the destination of becoming My Promised Bride.

We indeed arrived safely on our trip to Niagara Falls and TACF.  We had a wonderful time and experienced many beautiful things.  But the leading of the Lord to pursue the Bride stayed with me, and has grown and expanded.  What I will ultimately share are some of the specifics for how and why to Imagine…The Bride. But first, I need to lay some groundwork for understanding how things are arranged to prevent confusion.